HOW TO TRUST YOURSELF


Are you struggling with a decision?  Is there something you want to do but you’re just not 100% sure if you should?  If your answer is yes, how would it feel if I gave you permission to make the choice you want to make but are scared to?

My guess is you would feel relieved.  But then you’d question that relief with what if’s like:

What if I hurt someone?  What if I fail?  What if it isn’t the “right” decision?  What if people don’t agree?

All these what if’s are keeping you in limbo.  They’re keeping you a prisoner of fear.  They’re reinforcing a limiting belief that other people’s feelings or expectations are more important than your TRUTH.

Many of my coaching clients come to because they’re seeking clarity about a decision.  Almost 100% of the time, however, they already know the answer.  They’re just looking for someone to give them reassurance and permission.

But it’s not my job (or anyone else’s) to give you permission to live your life!  What is my job as a coach is to guide you back to trusting your intuition.  YOU are the boss of your life!!  You can trust your intuition even if it doesn’t always make sense or feels scary.

It’s time to stop running to other people for answers!  Believe me, I understand how hard that is, especially when it comes to BIG decisions. But remember:  You cannot develop self-trust without action.  Sitting in indecision just reinforces self-doubt and anxiety.

The minute you make a choice, you’re back in action and you feel free. Worst-case scenario if things don’t go exactly as you planned?  You learn, adjust, and take a different action.  But paralysis by analysis just keeps you stuck!

What do you need to give yourself permission to do?  Leave a comment for me so I can cheer you on!!

I believe in you!  I trust you!  Now it’s time for YOU to trust you.

 

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