Is Low Self-Esteem Affecting Your Productivity?


Whether you’re an army of one and working on a personal project, an employee in a large company, or an entrepreneur with a small staff, the only way to achieve anything is to take action toward a goal.  That action has to have both quantity and quality.  But if you have low self-esteem, you can unwittingly sabotage your efforts.

Here’s how: You may know someone who seems to be very knowledgeable and skilled in his/her field, yet their performance and output consistently falls short of their potential and abilities.  Their performance doesn’t seem to fit with their potential.

Why?  Because they don’t believe in themselves.  Or in some cases, they believe in their abilities but don’t feel worthy of success — so why bother even trying?

Self-esteem can be defined as “the experience of being capable of meeting life’s challenges and being worthy of happiness” (as defined by the National Association for Self-Esteem).  People who lack self-esteem don’t believe that they’re capable or worthy of great results, even though their skill and knowledge may be more than adequate — and certainly, anyone who puts forth the effort deserves to succeed!

Even worse, people who lack self-esteem don’t believe they’re worthy of great results, so they unconsciously “dumb down” their work so as to not stand out, be noticed, or (gasp) outperform their peers.

In the workplace, low self-esteem causes many problems.  If you have a poor perception of your abilities and competency, or feel that you don’t deserve success, then you’re programming yourself for failure or, at best, mediocrity.

So, guess what?  Your efforts and your results will never measure up to your potential.

There’s an important relationship between lack of belief in capability and lack of belief in worthiness.  People who believe they’re competent but not worthy may tend to become boastful. This backfires when their true accomplishments don’t measure up to their claims.  Resumé padding is one example of this, and all savvy employers see right through this tactic.

People who believe they’re worthy but incompetent may tend to blame everyone and everything else for their lack of results.  Usually, these people speak as though they’re very self-important, but again, their results don’t back up their words.  In both cases, after a while, nobody will take them seriously.

So, how can you raise both your belief in your competency and your belief in your worth, so that you can excel in your career and become more productive in any endeavor?

Here’s a fun trick you can use that won’t cause a huge upheaval in your life, but will gradually build your self-esteem:

Make a deal with yourself: Promise yourself that for 1% of every day — that’s just a little over two minutes — you will NOT do something that makes you feel bad about yourself.  Instead, you’ll instead do something that’s empowering.

For example:

  • You won’t talk to your best friend about how you never get promoted at work — but you will talk to her about how grateful you are for your job and what you’re learning;
  • You won’t light up that cigarette — you will instead take a few very deep, cleansing, meditative breaths (just once a day for 2 minutes, remember?);
  • You won’t blame a coworker for a project failure — but you will brainstorm ways you can work as a team for the higher good.

What else can you stop doing for just 2 minutes a day?

  • How about spending 2 minutes smiling instead of frowning?
  • How about just 2 minutes complimenting instead of blaming?
  • How about expressing appreciation and gratitude for someone or something in your life instead of complaining or worrying?
  • How about complimenting yourself instead of putting yourself down?
  • How about encouraging yourself instead of giving in to fear?
  • How about envisioning the best-case outcome instead of the worst-case outcome?

When it becomes a habit (which takes about a month), that one percent positive difference will soon lead to more positive changes.  Tiny, sustainable changes in thoughts and habits will have a huge impact as they become your normal way of operating!

Next month, go for twice as much: Doing a positive, nice, empowering thing for yourself for four minutes a day and replacing one bad habit with a good one.  By doing this, you’ll slowly and gradually grow your self-esteem.  Using tiny steps and having fun along the way… And the best part?  This new improved attitude will make itself known at work, or in any project you’re working on solo.

You may not see big results right away, but sustainable positive change like this lasts because you give yourself a chance to develop positive neural pathways in your brain, and over time that will build momentum.  One day, your tiny self-love actions will have a huge impact!

Also, meditate on success.  What does success mean to you?  Put yourself in a vivid mental picture of success while you’re in a meditative state.

Spend time like this, visualizing YOURSELF as successful, and you’ll multiply the positive self-reprogramming you’re doing with incremental habit changes.

 

 

 

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